So here is my situation. I went out and had a really good time with my friends last weekend where I met this really good looking girl. Then I mean, REALLY good looking girl. You know when Megan Fox and the likes is put to shame, a true ten point! Anyway, it seemed she started looking at me a bit extra and we started talking with each other which later turned to kissing and stuff. And a hug to end it all and say goodbye that night.

Next day I picked out the face of books to check her out. Still being a tenner even at a sober state I was really aroused!

Lurking around a bit more like a true stalker. I saw that she was 29 (which I seriously can't believe, she looks younger then me (21)), AND she has 2 kids..

So I ask you my fellow men. How should I proceed?

2 Kids and apparently single, stay the **** away.

You're DEFINITELY asking in the right place

Proceed with facebook stalking and eventually brutal rape.

Then sell the kids to chinese slave labour and make bank.

Toot straight in with the old David De-Angelo. (Which he has now ninja edited)

But no wolfy is right, kids = stay away. I have experience of this.

And yeah not a great place to be asking really is it.

Only read the first few lines and assumed "lol offtopic inexperience"

Bah, been here for as long as you have Toot. I asked some friends and wanted some other points of view. So kids equals stay away. Why is this? I am not naive to think that kids will be no problem. What problem may come up?

tap it. the only thing that kids ruin in this situation is her vadge.

Which is why you shoot straight for the other one.

In all honestly, getting into something serious with someone who already has kids can be kinda complicated at the best of times, but worth it if the girl is as bangin' hot as you say.

The issue is that if you're 21 years old, it's a really ******* bad idea. Plus it says nothing of a womans integrity is she's going for a guy 8 years her junior with 2 piglets in tow, women who go for younger men are usually bad news as a rule but especially when they're fooling around and drinking themselves to first base with 2 kids waiting for her back home.

It sounds to me like she's really irresponsible which is fine if you're just going for the one-night stand but I'd definitely not want to get into a relationship.

Really depends on how she got the kids (please, no "how is babby formed" jokes). If she got married, planned on having kids, then got divorced (not like anyone really plans that), then you can't exactly call her irresponsible.

If she has been slutting about, and got 'em that way - then don't touch it with a twenty-foot barge pole (or something smaller).

A condom?

The irresponsible bit in my eyes is going around drinking and partying and using your tongue as a divining rod for a new daddy for your babbies while they're (presumably) off somewhere not being with their mother. I've been acquainted to a few of those women in the past and speakingly only from my experience i can't really make any excuses for them, they're bad news and it's just that simple.

I guess an important issue would be 'how old are the kids?'.

I feel like everyone in this thread is very judgmental of this girl they know nothing about. I say just go on a date and see how she truly is when not under the influence of liquid-stupidity. After said date you can decide whether you want to nope the **** out of there or not

Bad place for serious advice

don't listen to these moralist clowns, arty. if she got them from slutting around then she's a perfect target for well, more slutting around.

maybe she wnts you sperm so she can charge you for growing it

Did she tell you she has kids or did you find out on facebook? Cause if it's not too obvious and she hasn't told you she might not even be looking for anything really serious. In which case I say go for it and decide how you want to proceed later.

If you're looking for a serious relationship, you don't open up with talk about your kids.

Which is my point...

As long as she hasn't said anything about her kids you don't have to feel guilty if you decide to not take the relationship further later on.

Who seriously does this?

Thanks guys for the advices. Still don't see why some people think this is the wrong place to ask. I've got some great advice! I think I will just let this one slide. Maybe hope for a one nighter. If she wants to take it further I will be very cautious.

I'm dating someone with a kid right now. Yeah it makes things harder. Having said that you really should figure out for yourself what kind of person she is. Having 2 kids and going out for a drink doesn't tell you a damn thing about what kind of mother/person she is.

If you judge she's not a keeper, I'd still go for a little fun at least.